I've come to realise that there's no use being envy of everyone around you. To be specific, those lovey dovey couples around me, myself and I.
Cause no matter how sweet they are, this is all just some sort of "act" that they put up in front of everyone. I mean, face it, who is so nice and sweet 24 hours a day, 7 days a week? I'm sure everyone has bad days where they're just cranky and just start hysterically shouting at their other half? (I'm just referring to those people that have this really bad temper, a great example would be me).
I haven't been feeling this way for a while now, prolly coz I've learn to close both eyes when I see those lovey dovey couple. Which makes me a lot more happier. I've hide all the people on Facebook which might have the possibility of posting up some lovey dovey photos of them with their girlfriend or boyfriend.
Frankly I was lil' envious of my ex-classmate's trip to Australia which was "sponsored" by the girlfriend, according to rumours. But I'm not here to spread rumours, I'm just saying, I was feeling a lil' jealous of that fact, because many moons ago, I thought I'd never get to set my foot in Australia again. So I was a lil' bitter about the fact that, he gets to go there, enjoy all the expensive food, taking lots of photos and basically spending time with someone he loves.
But it seems that now he's having some problem in this relationship that he's in. Long distance relationship (LDR) ... Of course it's something that is expected from an LRD, unless you change yourself (more like changing your thoughts or your point of view) according to the situation, you're going to end up facing problems eventually no matter how much you guys love each other. There'll always be issues on trust and loneliness.
Honestly I could give lots of advice on LDRs, but it is ALWAYS easier said than done people. There's nothing in this world that is easy to achieve, without putting on a 100% of hard work. I wouldn't say LDRs is impossible to survive on, it just depends on how strong is your willpower. Are you the type that gives up easily? If you are then LDRs is not for you.
(Yes I know I went out of topic a lil' on this)
... back on the main topic .... so please spare me, from those awkward situations. If you can, then avoid me, if you can't then please don't kiss each other in front of me, no grabbing each other's ass or I'll be bitter about it, thankyouverymuch!
ahahahhaha! very well said. i think all relationships get boring/sour/bitter/empty eventually even if the couple is very much still in love. once they start loving each other, they stop liking each other :) and not all relationships are perfect.
ReplyDeletehmm so far i have rarely seen any couples kissing or grabbing each other's ass infront of me. :P maybe pg is so much more advanced than over here..
OUT OF TOPIC QUESTION: btw, i cant get my "reactions" buttons to work at all :( maybe my blog just hates me..
I like this sentence "once they start loving each other, they stop liking each other", hehe! ;)
ReplyDeleteAnd for the "reaction" button. Go to "Design" on your dashboard, then click on "Blog Posts" edit button on the "Add and Arrange Page Elements" section. Check on the "Reaction" box. :) I think you should revert back to Blogspot template in order for it to work though. Good luck on that ;)